Be Unforgettable.

What makes a woman unforgettable?

The French call it “je ne sais quoi.

I call it Iconic Appeal.

You know who she is. You’ve seen her. You’ve wanted to be her.

Maybe you’ve even thought to yourself,

“I wish I could just say, ‘I’ll have what she’s having.’”

She’s that woman who lights up the room when she walks in.

Unmistakable in her walk and dress.

She’s confident, charming, and comfortable in own skin.

There’s just something about her.

Perhaps you’ve wondered,

“What does she have that I don’t?”


She has the courage to answer the one question that defines her.

And, guess what?

The question is waiting for you too!

Are you ready for the question?

Not every woman is ready to answer the question.

Some are even shocked, as I was, when their soul answers it.

So, if you’re not ready to radically change your life and uncover the ideal version of yourself, STOP READING NOW!

However, if you’re ready to have the courage to be really honest with yourself ... KEEP READING.

My 2AM Wakeup Call

Hi there!

I’m Tonya Leigh, founder of French Kiss Life where women live artfully and well.

It’s lovely to meet you.

I travel the globe working with ambitious women who want to live life with more elegance, style and joie de vivre.

However, this wasn’t always my life.

It seems like not that long ago, I was living in the shadows of my own life.

I hid behind my weight, responsibilities and other people.

Like so many others, I convinced myself that this was just who I was and this would be my life.

Until ...

On a cold winter night, as I was working the night shift as a nurse in the Intensive Care Unit.

At around 2AM, we finally had time to sit down and take a break when one of the doctors turned to me and asked the question:

“So, Tonya, who do you want to be?”

I wasn’t sure how to respond.

So I gave the answer I thought was the acceptable answer.

“Um … a good wife, nurse and mom,”

I could tell by the confused look in his eyes that this was not what he was asking.

“No, I’m not talking about the roles you play in life. I want to know … ”

“Who do you want to be as a woman?”

After looking around for the hidden camera, I realized he was serious.

Talk about a 2AM wakeup call!

While I certainly wanted to be good at the things I’d rattled off, it was obvious I wasn’t clear on the “being” part of myself.

My essence.

What makes me unique.

The signature style of my soul.

How I wanted to be known.

My entire life up until that point had been about “doing” but “being?”

I wondered ...

Did I even have a choice in the matter?

I was who I was taught to be my entire life.

My thoughts were interrupted as our break ended.

(I had never been so happy to resume changing bedpans!)

But through the rest of my shift that night, I couldn’t shake his question.

The truth was, I didn’t have an answer.

I remember going to the bathroom later and looking at my overweight and overly tired reflection in the mirror.

Lifeless eyes stared back at me.

I had become a woman who was living out my days just going through the motions.

“Totally worth it! 

Tonya’s Modern Day Icon is not only inspiring and powerful, but super fun as well.

Modern Day Icon allowed me to be able to continue to have that push to continue to take action.

Tonya always keeps me so inspired about life and living.

Her uplifting messages, encouragement and exercises have helped me 100% to stay inspired and power through with an incredible attitude that I could not have mustered alone.

I am so very happy that I chose to work with Tonya.

- Bridget Stachowski Compagno, Brooklyn, NY

I was letting life happen to me instead of me happening to my life.

What happened to that girl ...
Who dreamed of traveling the world?
Who loved to dress up and dance around the living room?
Who imagined a life of dinner parties and amazing friends?
Who was full of grace, grit and gumption
to make an impact on the world?

Who believed in herself?

I realized I was a prisoner in the life I’d created without even noticing.

Driving home that morning, I couldn’t stop thinking about his question.

“Tonya, who do you want to be as a woman?”

Suddenly, the answer popped into my head!

As I heard it ring clearly in my mind ... I just about veered off onto the shoulder.

Because of how I was raised, It was NOT the answer I expected to hear.

Get a grip on yourself, I thought.

Everything in my “good Southern girl” mind fought the idea.

“No … that’s not me!”

“A girl like me can’t be that!”

“What will people think?”

“Don’t get too big for your britches.”

“Remember where you came from, girlie!”

But, when your soul answers the question, there’s no ignoring it!

And guess what?

That one word answer literally put the life back into my eyes and set me on a completely different trajectory.

It was the answer that eventually led me to French Kiss my life (even though I would never have imagined it at the time) and create a movement of over 100,000 women who are doing the same.

My answer took me on a remarkable journey of self-discovery which led me to accomplishing what I thought was impossible:

75 pounds overweight to permanently reaching my ideal weight with ease.

A meaningless to-do list to a calendar that represents my values and dreams.

Living paycheck to paycheck to having financial overflow.

Being surrounded by “boat anchors” to a community who put the wind in my sails.

Giving up when things get hard to getting stronger and more determined.

Being a walking fashion faux pas to being asked to speak and teach about style.

Overwhelmed every waking moment to relaxed and excited about what’s possible.

The trailer to the penthouse.

Wal-Mart to Chanel.

Unimportant to ... Iconic.

I now face the world with more confidence with Tonya Leigh's words of encouragement as my guide.

Modern Day Icon is a community of supportive and relatable women that help me focus on enjoying life.

I am no longer stressed about striving to achieve goals, but I discovered I can achieve my goals with ease and elegance.

Tonya Leigh is so encouraging, without judgment or making you feel bad about your current circumstances.

Any woman who wants to be inspired, motivated and transformed, should join Modern Day Icon today!”

- Kylie Smith, New South Wales, Australia

So, now it’s your turn:

“Who do you want to be as a woman?”

“I didn't know what I wanted to do, but I always knew the woman I wanted to be.”

-Diane Von Furstenberg

No matter what your mind says, your soul KNOWS who you came here to be.

But, you won’t find this answer in your to-do lists, a calendar packed with obligations or anyone else’s opinion.

It’s an answer that is most likely buried beneath a life of shoulds and blocking beliefs.

But, I promise you, it’s there.

And, it’s been waiting for THIS VERY MOMENT ... for you to have the courage to answer it.

When you accept the invitation to honor your own iconic heart and discover the essence of YOU, it unlocks a whole new way of being.

“If I had to describe what Modern Day Icon means to me in just three words I would have to say, “Own your glory.”

Without a doubt, Tonya helped to solidify the direction that I believed that I was headed in, but I wasn't fully intentional yet.

It was a little diva push into an iconic journey.

I believe that the universe had a hand in this program, meeting me at exactly the right moment I needed it. I have walked through a little bit of hell, but Tonya not only kept me focused forward but also out of my head.

I came out on the other side a touch more assertive and a lot more graceful for the journey.

I love you ladies!”

- Robin Ramsey Fox, El Paso, Texas

Become a Modern Day Icon

What makes you an Icon?

Think for a moment about the women you most admire.

Grace Kelly. Audrey Hepburn. Coco Chanel. Oprah.

Maybe, it’s your Aunt Betty.

Whoever she is, she has that “something.”

With style, grace, and joie de vivre, these women define what it means to be iconic - each with a defined essence that makes them legendary.

Whether you’re a stay-at-home mom or a CEO, every woman has an iconic heart — your unique statement in the world that only you can express.

I’ve worked with thousands of successful women around the world who desire more from life.

They want to travel, grow their businesses, attract an ideal partner, walk into a room with confidence and purpose - and no matter what it is they seek, becoming Iconic is the key they’ve been searching for.

An Icon …

Decides who she wants to be

Defines success on her terms

Embraces her feminine power and charm

Carries herself with elegance

Lives in a state of abundance

Owns her self-worth

Has curated a signature style

Embodies grace and strength.

Quite simply, an Icon is Unforgettable!

Iconic women do not have a special gift only available to a few. What they do have is the courage to define themselves on purpose and live out that answer every day.

Life is your stage!

It’s time for you to
step into the spotlight!

The world is waiting for you to become a Modern Day Icon.

What’s Included

Modern Day Icon is a self-study course comprised of eight salons, playsheets, and a series of other tools to help you discover and cultivate your inner icon.

Modern Day Icon is for you if you are ready to ...

  • Decide who you want to be as a woman and take inspired action to become her
  • Define success on your own terms and stop being pulled around by what others think
  • Let go of the crazy making of trying to “find your purpose” and started living on purpose!
  • Discover how to turn obstacles into opportunities.
  • Embrace your femininity as your greatest source of strength
  • Walk into every room with an unwavering confidence and a passion for life
  • Radically change your relationship with money and embrace a “luxury” mindset
  • Get out of the rat race of trying to keep up with the Jones’ and discover a whole new world of ease
  • Step out into the world embodying the woman you desire to be (from the way you think to the outfit you wear)
  • Discover your natural gifts and strengths and start using them in mind-blowing ways

Become a Modern Day Icon

“My life has become so much more fulfilling on a daily basis. 

Modern Day Icon was completely transformative, magical and powerful.

I feel so much more confident and sure of who I am in this world.

I have started taking action towards being a woman of purpose, truth, creativity, ease and elegance. 

If you are ready to take the ride of a lifetime and enjoy every minute, I can't recommend Modern Day Icon enough!

- Jo-Na Williams, New York, NY


Salon One:


I believe you can create whatever your heart desires – a successful business, a body you’re proud of, passionate relationships, daily ecstasy.

In this salon, I’ll share:

  • How to navigate your iconic journey and uncover what your heart desires most
  • The importance of creating your own definition of success and writing it out
  • Why waiting for a clear vision is not a good idea and what to do instead
  • The key to success that all highly successful people practice

Salon Two:


Do you ever feel like life is just hard? Do you constantly take classes and look for blueprints on creating what you want? Does this lead to more frustration?


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • 5 ways to spot your unique personal gifts
  • The power of your personal struggles and how to turn them into your greatest power
  • Why leveraging your gifts is key to your success
  • How to understand the direction the Universe is trying to take you

Salon Three:


Do you lie in bed at night wondering, What is the purpose of this thing called life? Why am I here? What is it that I’m supposed to do? What are my passions?


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • Why chasing passion is not working and what to do instead
  • How to find your passion and purpose immediately (it’s not where you think!)
  • How showing up for life right now will change everything
  • The real purpose of your life

Salon Four:


Feel too busy? Don’t have time to slow down? Overwhelmed? These feelings are distracting you from seeing and owning your iconic powers.


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • My personal practice for getting back into ease when I’ve chosen hard.
  • What you must have in place in order to guarantee more ease and elegance in your life and business
  • 3 things you need to remove from your life now that will instantly shift you into ease
  • The secret of an elegant mind and how to begin this necessary shift

Become a Modern Day Icon

Salon Five:


A woman that doesn’t know her worth will constantly sabotage herself, robbing her of love, health and wealth.

Iconic women have a deep faith in abundance and know their own personal worth. This is why it’s necessary for you to leverage your iconic power.


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • How I began to view money that changed everything
  • The top 3 money mistakes most women make and what you need to know to avoid them
  • 6 money mindset shifts that will take you out of struggle and into luxury

Salon Six:


Iconic women seem to have some sort of spell that seduces the hearts of others. The French call it that je ne sais quoi (or, I don’t know what). But, I do know what - and it’s both charm and confidence.


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • What charm is and isn’t and why it’s an essential component of being iconic
  • The importance of playfulness (or flirtation) in your daily life and my #1 flirting tip
  • How to use your charm to get a “yes” from the world
  • The myth about confidence that is keeping you stuck and what to do instead

Salon Seven:


Your feminine essence is powerful and the most iconic women knew how to leverage their femininity to create their heart’s desires. Understand what your feminine powers are and you’ll equally understand your own beauty.


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • The 5 feminine qualities to leverage to step into your iconic power
  • How your environment is impacting your iconic attraction power
  • The power of the ask and the specific things you need to be asking for now
  • Why perfectionism is destroying your dreams and self-worth

Salon Eight:


Grace is often a hard won lesson for many of us - but it doesn’t have to be that way. In order to truly step into your role as an iconic woman, it’s vital to discover how you can uniquely carry yourself in a way that you’ll never regret.


In this salon, I’ll share:

  • How to manage your emotions on the worst of days to stay your course
  • The elegant approach to dealing with criticism and doubters
  • What an iconic woman focuses on that makes her action steps more clear
  • How to detach from the outcomes and create joie de vivre in your daily life

Become a Modern Day Icon

What's Included

8 Audio Salon Recordings

To ensure your success in building a solid foundation to Become a Modern Day Icon

These eight Salon Sessions are not just “lessons” but will feel like conversations between you and me. The average length of each Salon is 30 minutes. On our private Modern Day Icon site, you will have unlimited access to the recordings, and you can download them as well.

8 Action Oriented Playsheets

Specifically designed to strengthen your own Iconic Power

To assist you in taking action from each of the eight Salon Sessions, I have curated a unique playsheet corresponding to each Salon, so you can directly apply what has been discussed. Each playsheet is filled with questions to ponder and assignments designed to support you to discover and strengthen your iconic power.

8 Inspirational Briefs

To surround yourself with inspiration and recognize your own iconic appeal

On our private Modern Day Icon site, I’ve been curating images, videos and lots of other goodies to compliment the topics in each Salon. These are things that personally inspire me and my life and my business.

Daily Accountability Sheet

… and my whispering in your ear) to ensure that you stay on track

Accountability is key to success, and using this tool daily will absolutely help you stay the course to Become a Modern Day Icon.

This is the exact tool that I use each day to stay committed to my dreams and iconic power. I’ve never shown this to anyone, but now, it’s all yours.

Lifetime Access

Since you will have lifetime access to this course material, you can listen to the Salons and re-work the playsheets as often as you like. Your Iconic Appeal will change over time, so these playsheets are an excellent way to not only measure your growth from today, and to give you an opportunity to continue to grow in your power in the future.

Your Celebratory Gift

My exclusive (and top secret) bonus:
I will teach you how to Leisurely Hustle.

As a Modern Day Icon, Leisurely Husting is the only way to roll, darling. As a celebration gift from me to you, after completing the coursework, I will give you exclusive access to my playsheet “11 Ways to Leisurely Hustle” — this is a private document that I had only been giving to my private clients… until now.

Become a Modern Day Icon

I loved being a part of the Modern Day Icon!

It not only expanded my learning and thought process, but I also found it deeply inspiring. I began to see that everything is related: politics, media, policy, art, design, business, actions, feelings, and thoughts.

I feel more empowered and more confident.

I can be all of me: sweats and makeup, making the world a better place and enjoying music and movies; reading literature and People magazine.

I highly recommend Modern Day Icon!

- Jennifer Shelton Armstrong, Mission Viejo, CA



By the end of this program, you’ll begin to see yourself differently, not as an average woman dealing with struggles and hurdles, but as a radiant and powerful modern day icon who is living an exquisite life.

Because I believe 100% in this course, and I have hundreds of women who have told me that this program has made a positive impact on their lives, we’re providing you with a 30-day satisfaction guarantee.

If you have done all of the course work and still do not feel that this program has benefited you, simply show us your work, and we will immediately refund you the investment amount. This is a risk free investment.

Are you Ready to
Become a Modern Day Icon?

You may be feeling a little nervous or downright doubtful that I’m even speaking to you. If so, this program is definitely for you. If you’ve ever wondered if you have something to offer or if you can really create your dreams, learning how to cultivate our iconic appeal is key.

You are about to step into a grand journey where you won’t be able to hide any longer, where your radiance will be required and your gifts known. It may be scary, but I promise you that it’s a beautiful journey.

Only you can become your own Modern Day Icon. I’m simply here to help you see your greatness.

If you have any questions, please email

With Love and Gratitude,


Be Unforgettable.

What Women Are Saying:

Having gone through the Modern Day Icon program, I have gained a greater appreciation for myself and what makes me unique. Also, instead of striving for perfection, to live a life well lived, flaws and all!

I live with more ease and celebrate my femininity more!! Dresses and lipstick included!

I would definitely recommend the program to others, because it has such amazing insight to address what many women struggle with. Thank you so much for offering this course to me. I am deeply grateful and I love Tonya!!

- Rachel, Evergreen, CO

I think everyone woman has the ability to love themselves and create the life they want. Modern Day Icon is a powerful and sensuous program that helps get you in the mindset of doing just that.

I looked forward to every session because I was discovering the joy that life has to offer. I am now able to show up as the MDI I want to be and no longer rushing around in the morning to get to the office.

I love Tonya's work. As a previous self hater, I've learned to love myself and celebrate myself which turns into a life you love!!!

- Renee, Sheybogan, WI

Modern Day Icon was a fantastic program that provided what it said it would and was something that was fun, enjoyable, and easy to connect with. This was the FIRST online program I've EVER completed!

This is a chic and stylish program that has fostered personal mind-shifts around self, projections and femme intuitions. Being part of this group of engaging women, I gained a sense of community and belonging.

Love you! And so proud of where you have come from and where you are going!

- Kayce, Scottsdale AZ

The Modern Day Icon program is so liberating and empowering. It generates connections with other women and encourages the sharing of experiences/perspectives that is priceless. Tonya prompted us to go within and discover each woman's individual beauty is freedom, that it is okay to be who you were uniquely created to be.

So many women are feeling that there is no place for them and that it is not okay to be the original for which they were formed. MDI is a beautiful, safe outlet and encouraging place to be ...

I discovered the feeling that I am not alone and that there are others who are dealing or have dealt with the same experiences plus the nurturing to give and receive from the wealth of women's sharing.

- Natalie Chapman, Clarkesville

I think most women forget what they really are and what is most important to them but I found that the Modern Day Icon program offers a real transformation for women to open the door of discovery. I became more aware of myself and what I truly matters to me. I developed a new calmness, became more confident, and more in love with life. This is invaluable.

Tonya, you're really inspiring, your audios and calls open minds... you made me feel different, and happier 🙂 Many thanks and a big hug.

- Susana, Roussada, Portugal

More Kind Words:

“I had so much fun taking this course and I'm so grateful it came into my life when it did. I enjoyed doing the work too. I feel like I have a better understanding of myself and what I need to do now. I also feel like I will continue to use the program even now that it's over to assist me in my growth. Loved it!”

- Stephanie, Metairie, LA

“I have just found that the ladies in the French Kiss Life Club, whether doing the MDI, Slim Chic and Savvy or just being there, are the most supportive, amazing woman I have ever communicated with. The support and outpouring of love from and towards each other is unparalleled in any group I have even known.

I would definitely recommend it. It is a course that teaches you who you are, and then allows you to own your own power and I love the "not my business" as far as external factors are concerned. ”

- Catherine O'Donnell

“I highly recommend this course because it helps you to put the most important things in life in prospective.

There is always a lot of clutter in my mind. This course helped me to sweep some of that clutter away and cultivate a sense of calmness as I focus more energy on what is important to me.

This course helped me to focus on what is important to help me achieve my goals for myself and also my business. A lack of confidence can undermine everything we do.

Learning to harness your own energy and point it in the right direction is life changing.”

- Susan Street

“This course truly has the potential to change your life for the better. Let the lessons wash over you, really think about their messages, and then take inspired action to move closer to what you want.

A sincere, committed investment in yourself pays dividends for life.

I absolutely recommend it! These messages are really about being your best self and giving yourself permission to follow and reach your biggest dreams. I would recommend this course to anyone who knows how to be "successful" but has forgotten how to enjoy herself, her world and her work.

Here's how to find that enjoyment AND how to do it with grace, ease and beauty. ”

- Camille English

Become a Modern Day Icon

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Copyright 2020 French Kiss Life, Inc. All rights reserved.